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Justice Conference 2016: Pre-conference Notes

Justice Conference 2016 Pre-Conference BadgeI was able to attend The Justice Conference for the third year in a row a few weeks ago. Had a great time with my friend, Amy, and learned a lot. Here are my notes from the Pre-Conference Trafficking Track, presented by The Salvation Army.

Session One: State of the Issue

  • Presenters: Mark Kadel of World Relief, Jason Pope of The Salvation Army, Amy Hewat of World Relief and Dr. Boaz Johnson of North Park University

Session Two: Addressing the Demand Panel Discussion

  • Presenters: Mark Kadel of World Relief, Rev. Dr. Marian Hatcher, the Ambassador-At-Large for the UN, Clay Olsen of Fight the New Drug, Caleb Probst of the Chicago Alliance Against Sexual Exploitation and Danielle Strickland of The Salvation Army
  • Science cateches up to a truth. There was a 40-year-old debate about cigarettes before they got labeled.
  • We must educate the brain, the heart and then the world.
  • CAASE empowers young men through an educational curriculum. Fight the New Drug primarily does school presentations.
  • We are fueling in all kinds of ways.
  • The majority of young men purchase sex for the first time between 19-23, usually due to peer pressure.
  • Porn should be not only addressed from a legislative effort, but from a groundswell. It will create a Prohibition Effect.
  • Men often purchase sex because they want to do the violent acts they see on porn to someone not their partner.
  • “Conversation is the correct parental setting on your computer and devices.: – Caleb

Session Three: Ending Modern Day Slavery: Prevention, Advocacy and Legislation at the Intersection of Trafficking and Global Health

  • Presenters: Porter DeLaney of Kyle House Group and Jenny Dyer of Hope Through Healing Hands
  • Over 220 million people want access to contraceptives, but don’t have access.
  • Women over 20 are more likely to survive child birth.
  • Infant mortality goes up when women spread out their children’s births.
  • Women who have less children are moe likely to work again and be involved in the community.
  • End Modern Day Slavery Initiative Act – $35 million requested
  • Less than 1% of the US budget goes to foreign aide (closer to .25%) for maternal and child health.
  • Check out Pillars of Hope campaign by attorney generals

Session Four: The Salvation Army’s Best Practices for Anti-Human Trafficking

  • Presenters: Pilar Dunning, Frank Massolini, Priscilla Santos and Danielle Strickland, all of The Salvation Army
  • Be aware of the supply chain of the goods you buy. There are opportunities to prevent trafficking and slavery with every purchase.
  • Check out Salvation Army STOP IT and PROMISE programs.
  • Find out what you bring to the space of your community.
  • Jesus gave disempowered people power. It’s also a good lesson in working with survivors.
  • Who would you and I be without the big and small celebrations in our lives? This is what many trafficking survivors live without. One stated that having a birthday party was her favorite thing.
  • Learn. Prepare. Act.
  • Do what you do well, but ask for help when you need it.
  • Sometimes when immigrants are undocumented people get rescued and put into programs, they actually make less and are still unhappy.
  • The Church needs to think creatively and solve problems, not wait for the government.
    • Beauty for Ashes raises money for survivors to get their education while waiting for their work papers. (Point Loma Nazarene)
  • Create contribution areas for survivors to feel like they get to participate.
  • Get plenty of training for your staff/vols. (online, in person, etc.)
  • Should we be using the term “rescue.” Many survivors come out more than once, and in the end, decide for themselves. They don’t see you as a rescuer.
  • “Destroying” the works of th Enemy…” when said by Jesus means “loosening.” It’s a process.
  • Be extravagant with your love and privilege.
  • United Way has a trafficking program.
  • Check out the Nordic Model documentary: Red Light, Green Light
    • “To change a nation’s mind, you have to imagine a better world.” – creator of Nordic Model. Also said you must really understand oppression.
  • Unity will be the key in addressing this issue.

Resources to check out, or re-check out:

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Summer Bucket List

FullSizeRenderI got the idea of a “Summer Bucket List” from Andie Mitchell, who’s blog I love, so I’m stealing borrowing it. 🙂 Plus, some of these items aren’t all that fun, so a bucket list sounds way better than a to do list.

And, hey, now that I’ve written them down for all to see, maybe that’ll help hold me accountable.

In no particular order…

  1. Find a new place to live. I think this is going to happen, and really, I need it to happen because I’m way closer to the new Braves stadium than I’d like. The traffic is already getting crazier. But I have no idea where I’d like to move.
  2. Rest. I’ve had chronic health issues for over four years now, mostly stemming from a terrible case of mono and adrenal fatigue. Less stress and rest are two recommended treatments I’ve not been able to make a lot of headway on, so that’s changing this summer. Plus, it gives me an excuse to binge-/re-watch Doctor Who.
  3. Find a new normal. I recently left my job, so I need to figure out what a week looks like now. Oh, and I guess find some freelance clients as well. Unfortunately, an extended sabbatical is not on the list right now.
  4. Plan my 40th birthday trip! I know, right? Can you believe it! More to come on this, but I’ve got a trip to Spain coming up this fall. So, now that I have some time on my hands, I’ve got to plan what that’s actually going to look like.
  5. Read. I have all kinds of articles, blog posts, emails and things to read that I’ve just been stowing away for the last couple of months (currently totaling over 500). They’re mostly about my new business, social justice issues and hobbies, but it’s a little shocking at how these things have stacked up. That’s got to stop, and I’ve just been waiting for summer.
  6. Catch up with friends. Work, travel and other busyness took over for quite a while, so I feel way behind with a number of my friends. But, as noted above, I’m “selectively unemployed” now, so it’ll mostly be limited to coffee/tea/FroYo dates.

Well, there are certainly other things on the list, but these are the big buckets. And sure to keep me busy for the next couple of months!

What about you? What are you up to this summer?


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My Journey Toward Justice Education

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(Logo courtesy of Be the Bridge)

I do not think it is by accident that as I prepare to head to The Justice Conference tomorrow, my friend Latasha posted my guest blog on Be The Bridge. This will be my third year to attend this event, and each year has helped me grow tremendously as a justice-seeker. You’ll read more about year two in my guest post.

I can’t wait to see what this year holds! And if you’re attending too, be sure to say hi!

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Growing up, I had some friends that looked like me, and some that didn’t. I honestly don’t remember giving it much thought. But looking back, I admit that I grew up in a mostly white bubble. I don’t believe that was due to any sort of intentional bias by my parents or myself; I think it was just the natural result of being drawn to people like me. I mean, don’t we all go around feeling like oddballs enough? From choosing friends to hiring employees, I think we all have that inclination. Similar is familiar. Familiar is comfortable. Comfortable is good.

Read the rest of the blog here…


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My Next Great Adventure

adventure quoteAfter almost six years, yesterday was my last day with Orange. And as I shared going away lunches, coffees, drinks and dinners with co-workers (friends) over the last couple of weeks, I was reminded of The Adventures of Tom Sawyer. Besides Tom tricking people into painting the fence for him (clever boy), my other favorite part of the book was where he and Huck attend their own funeral. I’ve always found that idea so interesting. Okay, self-serving, yes, but interesting. And so I was struck by a similar notion in leaving my job, albeit less morbid.

In the busyness of work and life, many of us, myself included, don’t find enough time to tell those around us how much we appreciate them. And I worked with many fantastic and talented people, both at their jobs and as humans. So many kind words were spoken to me before my departure, and several of us joked that it was like a funeral. Their words were so nice to hear, and I was glad to return the favor, but I was saddened by the fact that we didn’t have more of these conversations over the years, despite mutual admiration.

I had a couple of co-workers in particular who were unfailingly and consistently encouraging. We all know, and need, these people. Unfortunately, though, most of us allow thoughts to slip our minds, or days to stretch into weeks, which stretch even further, before we say the things we meant to. I hope I can rectify that moving forward using the example of those who were so generous with their words to me.

So, I dedicate this post, not just to my next adventure, but to my friends at Orange who helped prepare me for it. I leave there with a lot to be grateful for: additional skills, knowledge, self-awareness, stories, laughter and friends, to name a few. I am forever changed by the experience, and hope to have left them better off as well.

What’s next? I will be a full-time freelancer again. My hope is to do more writing and consulting, specifically working with social justice groups, nonprofits and social enterprises (cause-based organizations). I will also likely do more marketing and communications too, at least on some level, since that help is always needed. Of course, I also have contacts across various industries from all my years of work, so there will likely be other odds and ends in there as well, which I kinda like. 😉

I especially love small businesses. They’re flexible and scrappy, and I get a thrill out of helping things grow. And they usually need someone to like me to help them put better systems in place. So, while small businesses often can’t hire a staffer with my experience and expertise, they can usually budget it in for projects here and there. And that leaves endless possibilities, and a whole lotta fun.

Therefore today begins my next great adventure! Well, as soon as I finish this Hobbit/Lord of the Rings marathon…

I look to the past as a guide for the uncharted road ahead, while eagerly walking forward, not knowing what the future will bring. That, to me, is part of the thrill of living! I’m not in control anyway, and I know the Lord is at my side, so let’s just see where He takes me, shall we?

Micah 6:8 (NIV)

He has shown you, O mortal, what is good.
    And what does the Lord require of you?
To act justly and to love mercy
    and to walk humbly with your God.


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The Orange Conference 2016 Recap

We at Orange had our family reunion last week—complete with the crazy aunts and uncles. 😉 There were about 8,000 of us at the gathering, and it was amazing. Here’s a peek.

  • Number of attendees: 7,507 (Plus another 500 across the street at http://www.ReThinkLeadership.com)
  • Number of churches: 2,146
  • Number of countries: 23
  • Number of US states: 50
  • Number of organizations or churches: 68

http://www.TheOrangeConference.com