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The Ministry of Reconciliation

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I was excited to visit the MLK Memorial in DC last fall.

One of my favorite passages of scripture is 2 Corinthians 5:11-21, particularly the part about God giving us the “ministry of reconciliation.” To me, that is central to the work of social justice. It is a mantle I have taken up, and carry with me. And it is what comforts me when I’m weary of how people have harmed each other over and over again, but feel the need to take a step forward anyway.

I once heard someone define justice as “God’s way of putting things right,” and I liked that. It makes the word both a noun and a verb, and I believe that’s how we need to treat it to make any real progress.

11 Since, then, we know what it is to fear the Lord, we try to persuade others. What we are is plain to God, and I hope it is also plain to your conscience. 12 We are not trying to commend ourselves to you again, but are giving you an opportunity to take pride in us, so that you can answer those who take pride in what is seen rather than in what is in the heart. 13 If we are “out of our mind,” as some say, it is for God; if we are in our right mind, it is for you. 14 For Christ’s love compels us, because we are convinced that one died for all, and therefore all died. 15 And he died for all, that those who live should no longer live for themselves but for him who died for them and was raised again.

16 So from now on we regard no one from a worldly point of view. Though we once regarded Christ in this way, we do so no longer. 17 Therefore, if anyone is in Christ,the new creation has come: The old has gone, the new is here! 18 All this is from God, who reconciled us to himself through Christ and gave us the ministry of reconciliation: 19 that God was reconciling the world to himself in Christ, not counting people’s sins against them. And he has committed to us the message of reconciliation. 20 We are therefore Christ’s ambassadors, as though God were making his appeal through us. We implore you on Christ’s behalf: Be reconciled to God. 21 God made him who had no sin to be sin for us, so that in him we might become the righteousness of God. (NIV)

These verses have rung loudly in my ears the past few days as we heard yet again about the tragic shooting of two African American men, compiled with the devastating addition of the attack on police officers in Dallas. Both are heartbreaking situations that never should have happened. But the question remains, what are we going to do about it?

I honestly think many people just don’t know what to do. It’s not that they don’t care, but they feel stuck in their response. Or maybe they feel conflicted in what to say, or how to react, or where to turn, or simply how not to offend. I’ve felt some of that myself, and I address it a bit here in this guest blog post.

So, if you can relate, I’d like to provide you with just a few resources that I hope will be helpful.

  • The first, of course and as always, is to pray. My friend Latasha started a terrific organization called Be The Bridge, which promotes racial unity and reconciliation through conversations and the Church. I suggest looking through her resources and site. But her first piece of advice for anyone is to pray. Pray for the situation. Pray for your personal response. Most of us live in our own bubbles, complete with people who look and think like us. So, pray for opportunities to make new friends or have these conversations with old friends. I think these are requests God would love to honor.
  • Another thing Latasha suggests is reading books by people who look and think different than you. Additionally, follow these kinds of people on social media, or go to the places they hang out.
  • Continuing along these lines, here is a fantastic conversation by Latasha and IF:Gathering founder, Jennie Allen, that took place on Friday. I highly recommend this 45-minutes as its just an honest sit-down between two friends.
  • This is a great article by Relevant Magazine for understanding the #BlackLivesMatter movement.
  • Check out this article by Kristen Howerton, who is white, which explains the concept of “white privilege.”
  • There are also many terrific books and movies as well. Two books I’ve read in the last year are The New Jim Crow: Mass Incarceration in the Age of Colorblindness by Michelle Alexander and Just Mercy: A Story of Justice and Redemption by Bryan Stevenson. And I gotta say, the latter is one of the hardest and most beautiful books I’ve ever read. As far as movies, there are well-known ones like Life is Beautiful and American History X. Here are a bunch more, and it wouldn’t take much research to find others, or you can ask me for more. I have lots to catch up on in this area too, and have books piling up in my Audible Wish List.
  • Pardon the bleeping, but this The Daily Show clip does make some good points while also bringing some humor to the situation. It’s always good to infuse some humor when you can.

There are lots and lots more, but if you need a starting place, hopefully this will provide you with one.

But here’s your disclaimer: I’m telling you now that this can be a messy process. I know that sounds scary, but it doesn’t have to be. If you’re getting outside your comfort zone, which you should in many aspects of life, just remind yourself that you’re doing it to become a better person and more educated. Most often, the people who don’t look like you will be really grateful that you’re making an effort to see life through their lens. And grace will be extended on both sides. Just make a new friend. You’ve done that before. You don’t have initially start with a race conversation. In fact, they might appreciate that too. 🙂

Sadly, I have seen bigotry in action. I have witnessed an actual segregated community south of Atlanta, complete with the literal “other side of the tracks.” I have heard friend’s stories of how they were discriminated against. And even if you missed these things, you’ve probably heard jokes that come at someone else’s expense. We cannot keep pretending these are ok. We cannot keep silent. This kind of harmful thinking often starts in small ways. And therefore, small actions can create change.

When you know these people, not just know of them, you should want to fight for them.

It’s hard work. It’s ugly work. It’s messy work. But it work that matters. And if you follow Christ, you have also been given the ministry of reconciliation. So, what are you going to do about it?

“In a real sense all life is inter-related. All men are caught in an inescapable network of mutuality, tied in a single garment of destiny. Whatever affects one directly, affects all indirectly. I can never be what I ought to be until you are what you ought to be, and you can never be what you ought to be until I am what I ought to be… This is the inter-related structure of reality.”
― Martin Luther King Jr.’s Letter from Birmingham Jail 


UPDATE on 7/12/16

I’ve also just watched these two online sermons from this past Sunday, and they’re additional great examples to watch about how the Church can address the issue.

North Point Community Church

The Potter’s House


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The Justice Conference 2016: Notes and Quotes

Justice Conf 2016 BadgeMark Charles

  • You can’t discover lands that are already inhabited. We tend to dehumanize those who were already here.
  • The Declaration of Independence calls Native Americans savages. The Constitution also degrades women, natives and blacks. It assumes the majority has the right to say who is human.
  • What does justice look like when everything you have is stolen and your system is corrupt?
  • Check out the book, Prophetic Lament.

Mark Reddy

  • “If you have a conversation about justice, you must be prepared to be uncomfortable.”

Jim Wallis

  • You don’t change things with laws and policies.  You must change the narrative.
  • When you benefit from oppression, you are responsible for changing it.

Leroy Barber

  • Starting Hope Mob to support African American biz owners. Not a charity, an investment.
  • 7% of nonprofits are led by people of color
  • 52% of nonprofits work in areas of people of color
  • 3% of funds go to areas  of color

Nicole Baker-Fulgham

  • 6% of Beverly Hills kids are in poverty, 82% of Compton kids are in poverty, and they’re only 20 minutes apart

Harvey Carey

  • Amos 5:21 (Amos means “burden”)
  • What happens when what bothers you doesn’t bother anyone else?
  • Low income areas always have a beauty supply, liquor store, fast food and a church.
  • Quite over-analyzing and just do something.
  • God honors one’s acceptance of their burdens.
  • Justice is not a project. It is the heart of God for equity.
  • “God has put some super in my natural.”

Andy Crouch

  • The Creation Story is a story of ordering and abundance.
  • Authority + Vulnerability = Flourishing
  • The destruction of evil happens when image bearers show mercy, compassion and justice to the disenfranchised.

Marshall Hatch

  • The goodness of God is in the margins, and that’s where change will come from.
  • The reality of history is that it is never over.
  • God sides with the poor; He doesn’t stand on the sidelines. He enters the world from the margins.

Lynne Hybels

  • Love, honor and respect those who are different from you.

Jenny Yang

  • There are 60 million displaced people, refugees.
  • The refugee crisis is about the one who is seeking refuge in another country.
  • The US paid attention because it now affects us. Fear has driven our response.
  • Compassion doesn’t have to come at the expense of security.
  • The Middle East church is carrying the brunt of the refugee crisis.
  • 67% of US churches haven’t discussed refugees.
  • We are followers of a Middle Eastern refugee. If Jesus was born today, would we let Him in our borders?
  • The largest social network is the Church.
  • There’s a difference in caring about something, and caring about someone.
  • Fear will cripple us from completing the mission of God.
  • Comfort and security have become our idols.

Russell Moore

  • Story of the Rich Young Ruler (Luke 16)
    • Lazarus would’ve been invisible to this guy.
    • Who is invisible in your life?
  • Our political beliefs should not come before our Christian beliefs. Jesus was unashamed in His words.
  • We can not be people who are concerned about justice if we are embarrassed about the doctrine of Hell.
  • We must be concerned not only about the oppressed, but about the Oppressor.
  • Are we a people of justice, or just a people who protect our platforms?
  • Are we a people of justice or justification? We must carry the full weight of the Gospel, not just the parts our political party allows.

Michael Flegar and Charlie Date

  • We can end violence, that’s not the issue, but we don’t have the will. – MF
  • There is too much silence in the Church. – MF
  • The reason we don’t talk about community violence is because it’s a black/brown issue. New Hope church changed that. People need to see themselves in every life, though.
  • The Church becomes irrelevant when it doesn’t act as the conscience of the neighborhood.
  • The guilt factor makes us silent, when it should move us to do more.
  • We can’t just tell people to do better, we must give them alternatives.
  • We can’t talk to kids in churches about God-given dreams and visions, and not dismantle the systems that help kids from achieving them.
  • Make us restless until we find out rest with You. – CD

Lisa Sharon Harper

  • Genesis 1
  • The first book of the Bible was written by a group of priests  coming out of exile.
  • We are created in the image of God so we can become a marker of Him wherever we go.
    • Like Caesar was on coins
    • Subversive statement to make when the early rules were supposed to be appointed by God.
  • “Dominion” is more akin to “steward.” And we are to serve and protect whatever we are stewards of.
  • The derivation of “perfection” is actually the breathe between things. It is the connector, and it is “very good.”
  • Genesis 14 is the first mention of both “king” and “war.”
  • Think of each person as an image-bearer of God in order not to oppress them.

Tony Compolo

  • “It is the best of times. It is the worst of times.”
  • We hear so much bad news, but the Good News always reigns.
  • The Church is doing great things all over the world.
  • Free trade should be replaced with fair trade.
  • Do you love Jesus? Take Him seriously.
  • “In the poor and the oppressed is the essence of Jesus.” – St. Francis of Assisi
  • You must do whatever you can on both a micro and macro level.
  • There is a big difference between being a disciple and a believer.

Rev. Tracy Blackmon

  • Joshua 6:22-23
    • A holy obligation to take someone with you when you get free.
    • Did the sisters get left out? No, Rahab made sure they were included.
  • It’s easy to silence those with the least power.
  • The Boko Haram story – It’s been two years and only 50 girls have been located out of the 200.
  • Whenever the marginalized are not met with the grace of God, the covenant is broken.
  • We must see ourselves in not only the eyes of the Conquerer, but the casualties.
  • We’ve been arrogant at denying others that are different a seat at God’s table.
  • We must not separate our freedom from those who are bound.

 

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Justice Conference 2016: Pre-conference Notes

Justice Conference 2016 Pre-Conference BadgeI was able to attend The Justice Conference for the third year in a row a few weeks ago. Had a great time with my friend, Amy, and learned a lot. Here are my notes from the Pre-Conference Trafficking Track, presented by The Salvation Army.

Session One: State of the Issue

  • Presenters: Mark Kadel of World Relief, Jason Pope of The Salvation Army, Amy Hewat of World Relief and Dr. Boaz Johnson of North Park University

Session Two: Addressing the Demand Panel Discussion

  • Presenters: Mark Kadel of World Relief, Rev. Dr. Marian Hatcher, the Ambassador-At-Large for the UN, Clay Olsen of Fight the New Drug, Caleb Probst of the Chicago Alliance Against Sexual Exploitation and Danielle Strickland of The Salvation Army
  • Science cateches up to a truth. There was a 40-year-old debate about cigarettes before they got labeled.
  • We must educate the brain, the heart and then the world.
  • CAASE empowers young men through an educational curriculum. Fight the New Drug primarily does school presentations.
  • We are fueling in all kinds of ways.
  • The majority of young men purchase sex for the first time between 19-23, usually due to peer pressure.
  • Porn should be not only addressed from a legislative effort, but from a groundswell. It will create a Prohibition Effect.
  • Men often purchase sex because they want to do the violent acts they see on porn to someone not their partner.
  • “Conversation is the correct parental setting on your computer and devices.: – Caleb

Session Three: Ending Modern Day Slavery: Prevention, Advocacy and Legislation at the Intersection of Trafficking and Global Health

  • Presenters: Porter DeLaney of Kyle House Group and Jenny Dyer of Hope Through Healing Hands
  • Over 220 million people want access to contraceptives, but don’t have access.
  • Women over 20 are more likely to survive child birth.
  • Infant mortality goes up when women spread out their children’s births.
  • Women who have less children are moe likely to work again and be involved in the community.
  • End Modern Day Slavery Initiative Act – $35 million requested
  • Less than 1% of the US budget goes to foreign aide (closer to .25%) for maternal and child health.
  • Check out Pillars of Hope campaign by attorney generals

Session Four: The Salvation Army’s Best Practices for Anti-Human Trafficking

  • Presenters: Pilar Dunning, Frank Massolini, Priscilla Santos and Danielle Strickland, all of The Salvation Army
  • Be aware of the supply chain of the goods you buy. There are opportunities to prevent trafficking and slavery with every purchase.
  • Check out Salvation Army STOP IT and PROMISE programs.
  • Find out what you bring to the space of your community.
  • Jesus gave disempowered people power. It’s also a good lesson in working with survivors.
  • Who would you and I be without the big and small celebrations in our lives? This is what many trafficking survivors live without. One stated that having a birthday party was her favorite thing.
  • Learn. Prepare. Act.
  • Do what you do well, but ask for help when you need it.
  • Sometimes when immigrants are undocumented people get rescued and put into programs, they actually make less and are still unhappy.
  • The Church needs to think creatively and solve problems, not wait for the government.
    • Beauty for Ashes raises money for survivors to get their education while waiting for their work papers. (Point Loma Nazarene)
  • Create contribution areas for survivors to feel like they get to participate.
  • Get plenty of training for your staff/vols. (online, in person, etc.)
  • Should we be using the term “rescue.” Many survivors come out more than once, and in the end, decide for themselves. They don’t see you as a rescuer.
  • “Destroying” the works of th Enemy…” when said by Jesus means “loosening.” It’s a process.
  • Be extravagant with your love and privilege.
  • United Way has a trafficking program.
  • Check out the Nordic Model documentary: Red Light, Green Light
    • “To change a nation’s mind, you have to imagine a better world.” – creator of Nordic Model. Also said you must really understand oppression.
  • Unity will be the key in addressing this issue.

Resources to check out, or re-check out:

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My Journey Toward Justice Education

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(Logo courtesy of Be the Bridge)

I do not think it is by accident that as I prepare to head to The Justice Conference tomorrow, my friend Latasha posted my guest blog on Be The Bridge. This will be my third year to attend this event, and each year has helped me grow tremendously as a justice-seeker. You’ll read more about year two in my guest post.

I can’t wait to see what this year holds! And if you’re attending too, be sure to say hi!

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Growing up, I had some friends that looked like me, and some that didn’t. I honestly don’t remember giving it much thought. But looking back, I admit that I grew up in a mostly white bubble. I don’t believe that was due to any sort of intentional bias by my parents or myself; I think it was just the natural result of being drawn to people like me. I mean, don’t we all go around feeling like oddballs enough? From choosing friends to hiring employees, I think we all have that inclination. Similar is familiar. Familiar is comfortable. Comfortable is good.

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My Next Great Adventure

adventure quoteAfter almost six years, yesterday was my last day with Orange. And as I shared going away lunches, coffees, drinks and dinners with co-workers (friends) over the last couple of weeks, I was reminded of The Adventures of Tom Sawyer. Besides Tom tricking people into painting the fence for him (clever boy), my other favorite part of the book was where he and Huck attend their own funeral. I’ve always found that idea so interesting. Okay, self-serving, yes, but interesting. And so I was struck by a similar notion in leaving my job, albeit less morbid.

In the busyness of work and life, many of us, myself included, don’t find enough time to tell those around us how much we appreciate them. And I worked with many fantastic and talented people, both at their jobs and as humans. So many kind words were spoken to me before my departure, and several of us joked that it was like a funeral. Their words were so nice to hear, and I was glad to return the favor, but I was saddened by the fact that we didn’t have more of these conversations over the years, despite mutual admiration.

I had a couple of co-workers in particular who were unfailingly and consistently encouraging. We all know, and need, these people. Unfortunately, though, most of us allow thoughts to slip our minds, or days to stretch into weeks, which stretch even further, before we say the things we meant to. I hope I can rectify that moving forward using the example of those who were so generous with their words to me.

So, I dedicate this post, not just to my next adventure, but to my friends at Orange who helped prepare me for it. I leave there with a lot to be grateful for: additional skills, knowledge, self-awareness, stories, laughter and friends, to name a few. I am forever changed by the experience, and hope to have left them better off as well.

What’s next? I will be a full-time freelancer again. My hope is to do more writing and consulting, specifically working with social justice groups, nonprofits and social enterprises (cause-based organizations). I will also likely do more marketing and communications too, at least on some level, since that help is always needed. Of course, I also have contacts across various industries from all my years of work, so there will likely be other odds and ends in there as well, which I kinda like. 😉

I especially love small businesses. They’re flexible and scrappy, and I get a thrill out of helping things grow. And they usually need someone to like me to help them put better systems in place. So, while small businesses often can’t hire a staffer with my experience and expertise, they can usually budget it in for projects here and there. And that leaves endless possibilities, and a whole lotta fun.

Therefore today begins my next great adventure! Well, as soon as I finish this Hobbit/Lord of the Rings marathon…

I look to the past as a guide for the uncharted road ahead, while eagerly walking forward, not knowing what the future will bring. That, to me, is part of the thrill of living! I’m not in control anyway, and I know the Lord is at my side, so let’s just see where He takes me, shall we?

Micah 6:8 (NIV)

He has shown you, O mortal, what is good.
    And what does the Lord require of you?
To act justly and to love mercy
    and to walk humbly with your God.